men and their vanity !!

a dear friend of mine said he smokes to reduce weight !! i was really appalled on hearing something so vain from a man whom i thought was very logical, sensible, intelligent and above all NOT frivolous. I guess i have to welcome myself to the men of 22nd century as vain as they come.. mask it under the even more vain name "metrosexy"




i still remember when we were in school, a bro of my friend used fair and lovely and that was his life's closely guarded secret which our entire gurl gang knew thanks to his sis and we would make pathetic gags on him. but today thinking back, he must have been one of the earlier member of the brotherhood called "metrosexy"

my bro spends like almost an hour to decide what to wear for a party (its my blog and i can exaggerate a bit here .. am da gueen) , my family friend uses chapstick. well i could quote more eg.. but i guess you must have got the flow of things by now..

Ok am not crazy.. i would like my man to follow personal hygiene but getting so messed up bout one's look to such an extend is totally another ball game.

come on guys, we really don't care how hot you look, how well your brows are plucked, how you maintain your nails or the flex your bicep, tricep and whateva more ceps you have. Its whats inside you that matters. If you are compassionate, thoughtful, loving, trust worthy, not a hypocrite and understanding .. you win hands down the most desirable man title. so drop da metrosexy shit and get real ..

b a man

:P

Dexter - my tribute to Marley and Me

Am a good boi .. Now gimme da ice cream fast !!

Am da Real Cool Dude !! Wuz up Ladies, How you doing eh ;)

My two adorable Devils, broi n dexy

Oh stop torturing me with all these pics .. grrrr !!


Me Sleepy now.. so buzz off :P

Indian Female authors.. you rock gurls

I love to read, earlier i was more into international authors like Jeffery Archer, Charles Dickens, Enid Blyton, Dan Brown ( well he seriously disheartened me.. first two books awesome next two beyond awesome disasters)

But off late i have started reading indian authors, and am finding them real good. My romance with Indian author started with Chetan Bhagat, five point someone was awesome, what really made me feel more excited was he had left his email id to post comments on, I very enthusiastically and earnestly put in my thoughts in a mail, not that i wanted a reply but one acknowledgement would have been good. There came none, neways read his second book and commented, same fate when his third book was released he sends in a mail to all the fools like me to put in a word for him.. sure buddy,, as they say any publicity is good, so he did put me off him by his callousness and even worse with books to follow.



then i read indian female authors, zoya factor by anuja chauhan, almost single by Advaita Kala, finger puppet by anu jayanth, piece of cake i fogot the author.. real nice books and the humour, the choice of words, the sentiments, the thoughts, all i could relate to. But what is more nice is the interaction. All these authors are open to communication, they interact and are passionate about what they write which is so heartening.. I dun wanna sound sexist but i guess what they have in common is being a woman.. hence more sensitive, creative, empathatic and what i liked was the humour which i always thought men were better at.

Great going gurls, you rock.

but when am on Indian authors, do have to mention suketu mehta for maximum city, very well researched book, and the white tiger by aravind adiga awesome narrator .. hmm men too are gettin good at writing ;)..since we show them how to do it..

I dream of writing a book which finds more than one reader .. well someday for sure.. untill then have too many books to read..

Humanity .. an extinct trait

Today Ma and me had gone to apna bazaar, well that in itself is unusual coz i never go there, neways there was a 90 year old elegant man behind me in the queue, I offered to hold his bag and drop him home. He was so grateful and happy for doing something so trivial made me really think that we have become so selfish and self obsessed that we have somewhere stopped living and started existing.




Its like gadget, you exist, you perform as per the program your mind fixes, heart is dysfunctional, greed has enslaved all feelings,more greed, more horse power, if a part is faulty, replace it, no more fixing it right, whip it to max, find a bigger better meaner one, drop this one.

Now feelings, thoughtfulness, care, selflessness feature in a fool's dictionary. Well so be it i still am a fool, i care, i get hurt, i recover and i move on, stronger, more human and alive.. not existing but living every moment and relishing most of the moments.. morons are there to suck away some of the moments.. rest is good ...

distance makes the heart grow fonder .. dunno ...but mind go berserk.. fo sure

been almost the whole month out on tour, i was so tired and cold that sleep kinda deprived me, and my brain got hyper active. been into a lot of self analysis during this time and into reading this book called finger puppet by anu jayanth..



initially was cursing my " i can judge books by the feel of it, if not just cover" thing i have, but gradually the book got me gripped in at times to stop my hyper mind n other times, the story kinda related to me .. i all of a sudden thought i am like the villain in the book, we shared similar trait, shot temper.. the solution out there in the book was turning into vegetarian.. i am the kind where there is no other type of people other that non vegetarian n the other types are called goats.. not funny any longer but that was a silly gag we non veggies shared..

neways so i realized to live a fuller happier life turning into vegetarian was a experiment i had to indulge into. i also looked around n found my more calmer friend jigna is a vege, my volatile gas nik is non veggie.. so i knew the key element here was veg it is..

came back and the whole bunch had a laugh at my conclusion, and i all of a sudden developed urges to hav chick tandoori, kabab, tikka masala and what not.. ma made prawn curry and i fogot all bout this romance i was gonna indulge...

but today i am again thinkin bout da veggie thing and thinkin of controlling my short temperedness which is justified considering the morons that invade earth ;).. i rather control my mind.. food shdnt be dat difficult .. what say !