Wednesday, May 6, 2009

door closed = door open ??

today someone behaved in a way i dint expect the person to behave.. i was hurt and angry and was full of many other not so good emotions..

but at the end of the day i realised i really am looking at the closed door...

in life we learn from bitter and not so sweet experience that "what not to do" or "how not to be".. which is a valuable lesson in itself.. so here is the other door that opened ... i am enlightened ..

but why is there so much pain when there is learning in life.. why aint life's learning as easy as classroom's ? why does always time come to the rescue to ease pain and is happiness an eternal pursuit ? why is loneliness always the compainion of pain and the world of happiness? why does lie, diceit and malice win the battles inspite of truth, value and integrity win the war? why does a door have to close and then a new one opens ? why doesnt one door lead to the other ?
why do we hurt ourselves by allowing others to affect us and yet be in love with our tormentors ? why inspite of repeated failures we hope that we will bring in a change ? why do we never get to see the bigger picture and feel left out in the movie of life ? why do we get boggled with the same things inspite of our resolutions ?

is this the undauntable spirit or is it fool's paradise ? time alone .. the storyteller .. will tell our saga ...

2 comments:

  1. It wasn’t a canine buddy, but an Alsatian

    The realization that we can learn from bitter truths and not exactly from the sweet ones is a point to ponder … and why not?
    Difficult moments are better teachers ..

    so many interesting questions ..
    if we could have answers to all these as we do some mathamatical problems, how boring life would ha?

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  2. ic .. whats his / her name ?

    well bitter experience do make a deep impact but aint we all trying to make our lives a bit more simple and sweet..

    so why not get to learn from good experience the all important lessons ?

    true life would become boring.. but am not complaining !!

    i dont mind life being a lil boring when it comes to lessons learned...

    we will fo sure figure out ways to make it fun :)

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