men will be men and women know better !!

i have come to a reliance web world in chandigarh and was doing some surfing when i hear a lady reprimand her co worker telling her not to talk like a girl and work like a guy..

it brought a smile on my face

i really admire the way woman can be candid about most issues and discuss the same..

the men in my life other than dexter are totally non expressive !!

my brother or father still think its real macho to hide their problems untill its taken the proportion of Hulk and then they come to us (meaning me and ma) for solution ... phew !!

i have always tried to teach my bro that its not macho to not cry but just the opposite (only metaphorically speaking !!! ) but like most men .. he too has n't got the deep rooted meaning behind it..

i have noticed certain common traits in most men i have encountered / interacted / known closely / known casually / dint wanno know but destiny was more adament / knew indirectly / dieing to know (george clooney tops that list!!) / loved to know
..

# never ask for direction
even if that means running in the jungle with a cheetah following them !!! grrrr

# never really grow up ...
as kids its playing cricket.. as youngsters its chasing cars ... as oldies its commenting on whichever game they watch...........
winning some silly game still rocks their lil boat !!! grow up

# they hate shopping ..
only because we love it and they dont have taste for finer things in life !!!
(only exception i met till date is my colleague mr pai..it took me 31 years to meet this exception !!!!!!)

# pig headed = macho
wild = macho
sensitive = gay
in pain -> alcohol
in tension -> ciggi
nervous -> crack a pj and laugh .. whats more .. expect others to laugh toooooo!!!!???
hot body -> only stimulus required ..
their dictionary & sop baffles me !!!


#Yeh Dosti hum nahi todenge
this is one thing i love about them and they really mean it...
any thing fo a friend.. most women dont do that ...


well but whats best is .. women know this and better and accept their man, bros, bfs, sons with all this and still humour them so well that men still live in this lil haven of theirs .. happy !!

PS i am not a feminist.. only a realist ... comming shortly is a post on common traits of women too ...